The Selfish Caregiver is a blog about dealing with the realities of caregiving, bereavement, and grief during your 20s and 30s. Its author, Laura Holmes, lost her father, mother, and best friend to cancer during her 20s. She claims no expertise in the matter beyond her personal experience, but hopes that her writing can help other people struggling with grief–or, at the very least, that her questionable life decisions will make other people feel better about themselves. Whatever works, y’know?